Self Description: I have gained wisdom through making a lot of mistakes and have found that happiness isn't something you can buy or something someone else can give you, it is simply a bi-product of living a good honest life and being of service to others. I spent the early part of my life accumulating stuff, and one day I looked around at all my stuff and said I still feel empty, I do love the finer things in life, and am blessed to be able to enjoy them, the difference is they aren't my reason for being or my sense of self any longer. I have found that helping others gives me more joy and peace than any self serving things I've done in the past, so I spend as much time as I can doing it.

Comments: I'm not looking for an eye candy, but I do take pride in my appearance and expect you to do the same. If you sense I'm a little exasperated in my search for you, I guess you're right. I'm so tired of people who can say all the right things, but when the rubber hits the road they let fear and pride and ego get in the way. Please love yourself enough to let me love you. Be confident enough to admit your mistakes, and forgive me when I admit mine. And let's have some fun!